I am currently on my 8th month of pregnancy (this is going to be my third child), and my husband and I still have not gotten an ultrasound simply because we are torn with the decision, whether it is best to find out about the child's gender in advance, or if it is better to be surprised once the child comes out.

I have been pregnant twice before already, and in both pregnancies I have always gotten an ultrasound and so I always knew what I was going to get. I already have a daughter (from my first pregnancy), and I already also have a son (from my second), so basically I no longer feel the need to have to wish for a certain gender anymore because I already have each of the two.

So, I was hoping to hear advices from the parents around here, if whether I should or should not get an ultrasound. I am due next month and a part of me wants this third pregnancy of mine to be my very first surprise delivery, yet a small part of me also wants to know the gender so bad already (because I kind of would like to have another girl, because my daughter wants a sister).