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Originally Posted by skatss  I would suggest that you speak to an aunt or uncle or a grandparent. You can even try your Priest or Rabbi. It's hard speaking to a parent about this but if you're afraid to then go to someone else.
I will tell you that when I was a teen my parents were arguing all the time at one point and I was afraid that they would end up divorced. I asked my mother about it and she was shocked. She said that all people argue when they live together and that;s all that was going on then. She hugged me and told me not to worry.
My parents remained together until my dad died and were always very happy. I was worried over nothing. |
This happened with our children. Almost all of their friend's parents were divorced, and when we would have tiffs, the kids would get all quiet and "weird".
Finally we were sat down and our kids asked us is we were heading for a divorce. We also were completely gobsmacked! We assured the kids that we were totally in love and would never break up.
It did cause us to evaluate our behavior, and we realised that at that point fiances were incredibly tight, and we were both were stressed out about it. We resolved to quit frightening our kids, and everyone was much happier.
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